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Ask An Army Spouse: Divorce in the Army

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My daughter is 18 years old and was talked into marriage by a guy serving in the Army. He was in Afghanistan. She stayed by the computer everyday just to speak with him. He is getting back to Tenn. January 4 and yesterday morning calls her to say he doesn't want her to come down [...]

Ask An Army Spouse: BAH or Housing Allowance

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My husband is in his 9th week of AIT. We married in Dec after he graduated from BT. He just now got me added to DEERS. I called to see when we would start getting our BAH. I was told he had not yet completed the process and still needs to go to the finance office [...]

Ask An Army Spouse: Army Husband Feeling Left Out

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Hi I’m an Army husband and me and my wife were recently stationed out in Ft Bliss TX. I’ve been looking up a lot of information trying to find other Army husbands that are in my same situation. Now I know it is not that common that men play the spouse role in the Army [...]

Ask An Army Spouse: Should I Move Home During Deployment?

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Dear Army Wife, What do other Army wives suggest during a deployment, staying or moving back home? I am weighing my options right now and I would like to know the pros and cons.I have to seriously consider it because I was offered a job where I am from. Also,my parents offered to let me [...]

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My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year. He just finished AIT and is now stationed at Ft. Sill Oklahoma for the next 10 months, until he gets deployed to Kuwait. I’m only 17 and he’s 19. Next year I plan on going to a private college here in my hometown [...]